{"id":2196,"date":"2020-12-21T19:38:54","date_gmt":"2020-12-21T18:38:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/helenadahl.eu\/?p=2196"},"modified":"2022-02-18T17:20:07","modified_gmt":"2022-02-18T16:20:07","slug":"le-besoin-de-reconnaissance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/helenadahl.eu\/index.php\/2020\/12\/21\/le-besoin-de-reconnaissance\/","title":{"rendered":"Parce que j&rsquo;y crois"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"2196\" class=\"elementor elementor-2196\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-section-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-925832c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default parallax_section_no qode_elementor_container_no\" data-id=\"925832c\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-b9f7682\" data-id=\"b9f7682\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a886c70 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a886c70\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<h5><strong>Le besoin de reconnaissance est naturel. Tout en procurant un certain plaisir, recevoir des compliments encourage \u00e0 aller de l\u2019avant. Mais la qu\u00eate d\u2019approbation ne doit pas devenir une obsession pour autant, au risque de laisser le jugement des autres se substituer au jugement que l\u2019on se porte.<\/strong><\/h5>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-9343835 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default parallax_section_no qode_elementor_container_no\" data-id=\"9343835\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-732e9d2\" data-id=\"732e9d2\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div 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elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-837a5b0\" data-id=\"837a5b0\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4bf5a98 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4bf5a98\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Parce que j'y crois<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7222d37 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"7222d37\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h6 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Le besoin de reconnaissance<\/h6>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5d42a47 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default parallax_section_no qode_elementor_container_no\" data-id=\"5d42a47\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-b8c039e\" data-id=\"b8c039e\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7983a33 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"7983a33\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-54fb7f59 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default parallax_section_no qode_elementor_container_no\" data-id=\"54fb7f59\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-786999de\" data-id=\"786999de\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-22b26d69 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"22b26d69\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<h3><strong><span style=\"color: #4f8894;\">Lorsque l&rsquo;indiff\u00e9rence devient insupportable<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Lorsque j\u2019\u00e9tais au plus fort de ma d\u00e9pression, je me souviens avoir aid\u00e9 mon mari \u00e0 pr\u00e9parer un plat pour mes parents. \u00c0 la fin du repas, ils l\u2019ont remerci\u00e9 pour avoir cuisin\u00e9. Et sit\u00f4t, je me suis emport\u00e9e. \u00ab\u00a0Et moi alors\u00a0? <strong>On ne me remercie pas\u00a0?<\/strong> J\u2019ai tout de m\u00eame coup\u00e9 les carottes\u00a0!\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Le fait d\u2019avoir \u00e9t\u00e9 <strong>ignor\u00e9e<\/strong> m\u2019\u00e9tait insupportable. C\u2019\u00e9tait comme si <strong>je n\u2019existais pas.<\/strong> Dans ma t\u00eate, j\u2019\u00e9tais incapable de me dire, \u00ab\u00a0c\u2019est bien, tu as fait un effort, tu as particip\u00e9 un peu \u00e0 la cuisine, alors que tu es min\u00e9e par la maladie, c\u2019est un progr\u00e8s, bravo\u00a0!\u00a0\u00bb. Non, il fallait que cela vienne des autres. J\u2019aurais \u00e9t\u00e9 <strong>incapable de m\u2019accorder le moindre m\u00e9rite<\/strong>. Ce probl\u00e8me, accentu\u00e9 par la d\u00e9pression, n\u2019\u00e9tait toutefois pas nouveau.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><strong><span style=\"color: #4f8894;\">S&rsquo;effacer d&rsquo;un coup de gomme<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Par exemple, au travail, d\u00e8s que je ne recevais pas de retour ou de merci, je commen\u00e7ais \u00e0 <strong>douter de moi<\/strong>. Dans mon couple, avec mes amis, ma famille, c\u2019\u00e9tait exactement pareil. \u00ab Tu aimes bien mon dessin ? \u00bb \u00ab Ce texte est-il bien \u00e9crit ? \u00bb \u00ab Trouves-tu ma robe jolie ? \u00bb \u00ab &#8211; Alors, il est bon ce g\u00e2teau ? \u2013 Attends, je ne l\u2019ai pas encore commenc\u00e9. \u00bb \u00ab J\u2019ai bien fait, hein ? \u00bb Tout, absolument tout, devait \u00eatre certifi\u00e9 et approuv\u00e9. N\u00e9cessairement, je devenais facilement jalouse et envieuse.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><strong>En vivant dans la peur d\u2019\u00eatre oubli\u00e9e, je m\u2019oubliais<\/strong> sans m\u2019en rendre compte. J\u2019existais \u00e0 travers les autres, tra\u00eenant au corps un besoin visc\u00e9ral de reconnaissance.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>D\u00e8s que je me retrouvais face \u00e0 moi-m\u00eame, il n\u2019y avait plus rien. Seule devant mon \u00e9cran, seule dans un groupe qui ne faisait pas attention \u00e0 moi, seule en collectivit\u00e9, je m\u2019effa\u00e7ais d\u2019un coup de gomme.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Aujourd\u2019hui, ce probl\u00e8me se poursuit, mais pour la premi\u00e8re fois, j\u2019en ai pleinement conscience, et je comprends pourquoi je r\u00e9agis comme cela.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><strong><span style=\"color: #4f8894;\">Sortir de sa zone de confort<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Les questions \u00e0 se poser sont les suivantes. <strong>Pourquoi fais-je ce que je fais\u00a0?<\/strong> Pour obtenir l\u2019aval des autres, ou parce que je trouve que cela a un sens\u00a0? Faute d\u2019obtenir une reconnaissance imm\u00e9diate, devrais-je abandonner pour autant\u00a0? C\u2019est facile \u00e0 dire, mais non. Si j\u2019ai foi en mes capacit\u00e9s, si je crois que je peux y arriver, je dois \u00eatre pr\u00eate \u00e0 me battre et \u00e0 <strong>sortir de ma zone de confort<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Pourquoi est-ce que <strong>j\u2019\u00e9cris\u00a0<\/strong>? Parce que j\u2019aime \u00e7a. Parce que cela m\u2019aide \u00e0 me sentir mieux. Comme la marche, l\u2019\u00e9criture est devenue une <strong>n\u00e9cessit\u00e9.<\/strong> Si mes textes et mes livres sont lus, si je re\u00e7ois des compliments ou commentaires positifs, cela me fait plaisir et cela me motive. Mais m\u00eame sans cela. Je continuerai et je m\u2019accrocherai. Parce que j\u2019y crois.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3><strong><span style=\"color: #4f8894;\">Le besoin de reconnaissance, un plus et non une fin<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Reconstruire son estime et sa confiance en soi n\u00e9cessite beaucoup de t\u00e2tonnements et d\u2019introspection. C&rsquo;est un chantier qui prend du temps.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><strong>Se f\u00e9liciter,<\/strong> pour une r\u00e9alisation, une r\u00e9ussite, un progr\u00e8s.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>S\u2019accorder de la<strong> valeur<\/strong>, reconna\u00eetre ses qualit\u00e9s et ses talents.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><strong>Accepter ses \u00e9checs<\/strong> et les critiques, sans les voir comme une remise en question de qui l\u2019on est.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><strong>Savoir f\u00e9liciter les autres,<\/strong> avec humilit\u00e9, et comprendre qu\u2019ils ne sont pas meilleurs que nous pour autant.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Cela s\u2019apprend.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>On ne peut pas d\u00e9pendre compl\u00e8tement de ceux qui nous entourent.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Leurs louanges et leurs remerciements ne sont pas nos uniques atouts.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><strong>Le besoin de reconnaissance d\u2019autrui n\u2019est ni une fin, ni un tout.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>C\u2019est un plus, un bonus, qui nous encourage \u00e0 aller de l\u2019avant, toujours.<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>La source, la racine, le noyau fondateur,<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Ce qui fait que<strong> nous existons pour qui nous sommes,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Notre sanctuaire et notre royaume,<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Il est en nous et nul par ailleurs.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:paragraph --><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-35fe8f1 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default parallax_section_no qode_elementor_container_no\" data-id=\"35fe8f1\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-762ec79\" data-id=\"762ec79\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4c73fa1 elementor-widget 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class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-776cee6\" data-id=\"776cee6\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-38cfce4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"38cfce4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-730ea23 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default parallax_section_no qode_elementor_container_no\" data-id=\"730ea23\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-8d90c13\" data-id=\"8d90c13\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4249db7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4249db7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-1344\" src=\"http:\/\/helenadahl.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Design-Auteur-Bleu-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"174\" height=\"174\" srcset=\"https:\/\/helenadahl.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Design-Auteur-Bleu-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/helenadahl.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Design-Auteur-Bleu-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/helenadahl.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/Design-Auteur-Bleu.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 174px) 100vw, 174px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3><strong>H\u00e9l\u00e9na DAHL<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Fran\u00e7aise r\u00e9sidant \u00e0 Bruxelles, \u00e2g\u00e9e de trente-trois ans, j\u2019ai commenc\u00e9 ma carri\u00e8re en tant qu\u2019assistante parlementaire au Parlement europ\u00e9en. Anim\u00e9e par ma passion des mots, j&rsquo;ai choisi de me lancer avec joie dans une aventure litt\u00e9raire. En effet, \u00e9crire a toujours fait partie de moi, et ce d\u00e8s le plus jeune \u00e2ge. Mon premier roman, <em>La nuit s\u2019\u00e9veille et tout s\u2019\u00e9claire<\/em>, est une \u0153uvre de fiction bas\u00e9e sur mon r\u00e9cit de vie. Mon deuxi\u00e8me roman, <em>Un homme vrai<\/em>, raconte l&rsquo;histoire d&rsquo;un homme face \u00e0 la d\u00e9pression.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-067e579 elementor-widget elementor-widget-bridge_button\" data-id=\"067e579\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"bridge_button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<a  itemprop=\"url\" href=\"https:\/\/www.le-lion-zaile.com\/en\/accueil\/55-la-nuit-s-eveille-et-tout-s-eclaire-9782960250947.html\" target=\"_self\"  class=\"qbutton  default  qode-button-shadow\" style=\"\">La nuit s'\u00e9veille et tout s'\u00e9claire<i class=\"qode_icon_font_awesome_5 fa5 fa fa-book-open qode_button_icon_element\" style=\"\" ><\/i><\/a>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Le besoin de reconnaissance est naturel. Tout en procurant un certain plaisir, recevoir des compliments encourage \u00e0 aller de l\u2019avant. 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